We seem to constantly underestimate ourselves in every way.
When was the last time that you thought you could do something, that when you
started to work on it with all you had, you were unable to accomplish it? Most
every time I have ever tried to accomplish something, I have discovered that I
am able to be successful at it. I suspect the very same thing is true for everyone. When we were younger, our parents,
if they are good parents, tell us we can do anything that we want to if we work
at it—and we believe them. Somewhere along the way, though, we quit believing that
we are enough, that we have what it takes to accomplish the challenges that we
face. We start to buy into the lie that we are weak and unable no matter how
hard we try.
There are some things that we can’t do. But most of the things that we think are impossible, are really quite possible if we are willing to put in the effort and not allow ourselves to become bullied around by circumstances. There is a lot of talk about having a high self-worth, but it would really be better to have an accurate understanding of true-worth. Rather than try to convince ourselves that we are really valuable, which seems to say that we are not valuable, but it is important for us to think that we are so we need to convince ourselves that it is true, why don’t we figure out what our true-worth is—that we have what it takes if we work hard.
There are some things that we can’t do. But most of the things that we think are impossible, are really quite possible if we are willing to put in the effort and not allow ourselves to become bullied around by circumstances. There is a lot of talk about having a high self-worth, but it would really be better to have an accurate understanding of true-worth. Rather than try to convince ourselves that we are really valuable, which seems to say that we are not valuable, but it is important for us to think that we are so we need to convince ourselves that it is true, why don’t we figure out what our true-worth is—that we have what it takes if we work hard.
Everyone can become truly great or become truly pitiful. The
difference is in large part realizing what greatness is and being willing to
take the steps to reach it.
Do you ever grow tired of underestimating yourself? I know I
do.
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